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There is no reason to make divorce harder than it has to be, by making poor decisions based on emotion and not what's best for your children. Our Lake of the Ozarks divorce attorneys are here to give you the dos and don'ts of creating a good parenting plan. Parenting plans are important because they can show the court your plan for co-parenting your children once divorced. No matter what, the court rules in the best interest of the children, so your plan needs to be just that - in the best interest of YOUR children. For an experienced divorce attorney in Camden County , call Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, and Welch at (573) 346-7231 for your free consultation today. The Dos and Don'ts of Creating a Good Parenting Plan The Dos Do be civil while making a plan with your ex. You never know how a divorce is going to happen but don't let yourself get lost in it emotionally. Do your best to remain calm and only think of your child when making this parenting plan. ...

If you are going through a divorce, have you ever asked yourself: How will this affect my kids? Will it affect them long term into their adult lives? In what ways will my kids' lives be affected? Our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a few examples of how kids can be impacted after a divorce. If you are searching for an experienced Lake of the Ozarks divorce attorney who can walk you through this process and answer any questions you may have, call Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter and Welch today for your free consultation at (573) 346-7231. Post-Divorce: How Your Children May Be Impacted  Emotional Impacts Your child may have different emotional responses to your divorce depending on what age they are. For example, if they are younger they may have this sensation that they may have caused this divorce and start to blame themselves. If they are a teenager, they may start to rebel or act out. The best thing you can do is just be th...

While every divorce is different and comes with its own set of emotions but no matter what type of divorce you are going through there are certain things you just shouldn't do, the wrong moves to avoid in order to make your divorce run as smoothly as it possibly can. If you would like legal advice regarding your divorce, call the experienced Lake of the Ozarks divorce attorneys at Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, and Welch . We can be reached at (573) 346-7231 for your free consultation. Wrong Move #1: Liquidating major assets that are supposed to be shared Marital assets (assets acquired during a marriage) are generally considered to belong to both spouses equally.  In the event of a divorce, the court will work with the couple to ensure that all assets are shared equitably between the spouses.  Though it may be tempting to try to hide or liquidate certain assets so that you do not have to share them with your spouse, this is never a good idea.  You can be ...

Divorce isn't something people like to think about or expect may happen to them. It's not always a "walk in the park" either. It may be the hardest thing you ever do in life our divorce attorneys at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to help you in any way we can. Keep reading for a few tips for splitting up property in a divorce. If you are going through a divorce near the Lake of the Ozarks area, call Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, and Welch today at 573-346-7231 for your free consultation. 5 Tips for Splitting Up Property in a Divorce 1. Know what the "marital property" is. Marital property or essentially shared property can be the assets or debt accrued together during the marriage. Having this in mind can help you split up your property during the divorce and get through it smoothly as possible. 2. Get organized and make a list of your assets. Organization is key. Get together and make a list of all your assets. You can also each try making ...

Going through a divorce can be one of the toughest things a person can go through in their lives. That being said, as an adult, you may have had some choice in the matter, but your children did not have that luxury and it can be only natural for them to have questions. Our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a few examples of questions your child may ask about your divorce. If you are considering divorce, we urge you to contact an experienced divorce attorney in Camden County as soon as possible. Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, and Welch specializes in family law and we are available for free consultations regarding divorce. Feel free to give us a call today at (573) 346-7231 with any questions you may have. Keep reading for a few questions your child may ask about your divorce and for some guidance on how you may wish to respond. Can the whole family still live under one roof? Be understanding of the fact that your child is probably really scar...

Whether you are going through a divorce or are an adult that was once a child of divorce, you know how emotional it can be. There is not really anything in life that prepares you for it. Sometimes you can see it coming and sometimes it can feel like one of the most unexpected things that ever happens to you. Either way, the kids involved didn't ask for it. Our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a few tips for supporting your kids during a divorce. If you are even thinking about getting a divorce, consult with an experienced divorce attorney in Camden County first. Know all of your options before making such an intense decision. Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, and Welch is here for you. Call 573-346-7231 today for your free consultation. 5 Tips for Supporting Your Kids During a Divorce When telling your kids for the first time you are getting divorced, have both parents present and explain it in a way someone of their age can understand. I...

Divorce can be so tough for everyone involved but the children may not really have a say. It may not have been their decision for their parents to get divorced, but it is still happening anyway. In their minds, they may be thinking, this isn't fair, what did I do to deserve this? These are valid viewpoints for children to have. Our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a few things you can do to make your divorce easier on your kids. If you are going through a difficult divorce and need objective guidance you can count on during this emotional time, call Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, and Welch a call for your free consultation today at 573-346-7231. Things You Can Do to Make the Divorce Easier on Your Kids Answer their questions honestly and appropriately when informing them of the upcoming divorce. The news of your divorce may be one of the hardest things your kids hear in their lives. Don't make it harder by lying about the reality of it, ...

Divorce is hard enough. Don't make it worse by making the mistakes that couples before you have made way too often. If you are in need of a divorce attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks that can be your objective guide during this emotional time, call Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, and Welch at 573-346-7231 today for your free consultation. In an effort to make things a little easier for you, we have compiled a list of things you can try to do to keep your divorce from becoming even worse. How to Keep Your Divorce From Becoming Even Worse Be honest about your finances. The hard, honest truth is that finances are a huge part of a divorce. Things run more smoothly when both parties are honest about their: Monthly incomes Monthly expenditures Spending habits Debt Define your own priorities and avoid letting the advice from loved ones distract you. Although your loved ones may be well-intentioned, divorce is emotional enough without getting distracted from what you re...

Alimony, or spousal support, is known as the financial support one might get from an ex-spouse in result of a divorce. This money is an attempt to keep both parties “lifestyle” as close to the "lifestyle" they have grown accustomed to as possible.  However, you can’t just get alimony by asking, you have to qualify for it and it must be granted to you. An experienced divorce attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks can help you determine whether you have a good chance of getting alimony or not. Let’s look at what factors into being granted alimony in a divorce case. How Do I Know if I Qualify for Alimony or Spousal Support? When the court determines whether or not alimony should be granted, they are looking at a few different things: • Can the spouse wanting financial support, support themselves?  • Are they able to acquire a job on their own? • Did the married couple have a child who needs special attention? If so, would the primary caregiver/parent be able work o...

No married couple plans on getting divorced, but the unfortunate fact is that approximately 50% of all American marriages end in divorce. Due to the prevalence of divorce in our society today, there are countless resources available to couples preparing to go through the process. Many of these resources are geared towards providing the couple with helpful tips on way to make the process simpler or more streamlined. This week, our divorce attorneys at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to examine the situation from a different perspective. What NOT To Do During A Divorce Just as there are certain things you can do doing a divorce to ease the process, there are certain things that may significantly complicate things and therefore should be avoided whenever possible. Here is a quick look at a few things we recommend you avoid. 1. Assuming Things Have To Be Combative The media likes to dramatize divorce by making a show out of angry husbands and wives making each other miserable ...