Why Have a Mediator in a Divorce?

Divorces can be so dramatic and affect way more people than just the couple getting divorced. Think about the:
  • Children involved
  • The surrounding families on both sides
  • Co-workers who are witnessing the sadness you may display at work
  • Friends who are trying to comfort you as much as possible
...etc. It can be much bigger than what some people may realize. That being said, our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to explain a few reasons why having a mediator in your divorce may make things run much more smoothly. If you have questions about this process, please do not hesitate to call our Lake of the Ozarks divorce attorneys at (573) 346-7231 for your free consultation today. 



Mediation involves bringing in a third party to help the couple getting divorced air out their issues and negotiate easier.

A mediator can help you negotiate issues surrounding:

Dividing Marital Property
Emotions can run high during a divorce and you may not always be thinking clearly, which is part of the reason having a third party present can really help. You may try to gain all marital property out of spite when in reality, that's not what's best for you or your family. A mediator can listen to both of your concerns and use their skills and training to help you reach an agreement in a timely manner.

Agreeing on Child Support and Parenting Time
You love your kids and you want to see them as much as possible, but the reality here is your kids (depending on your family situation) need both parents, so what you may be thinking, may not be the best thing for your children. A mediator can hear you out and your spouse out. Both of you can feel likely you have truly been listened to and you could be surprised how much that can really help. At the end of the day, an agreement needs to be reached for the entire family's sake and a mediator can help you do that.

Deciding on Alimony Amounts
Your idea of what might be appropriate maintenance (alimony) might not be reasonable.  A mediator can help you see what's realistic and help you and your spouse reach an agreement on this so you can both move on with your lives.

...and much more.



Here at Phillips, McElyea Carpenter, and Welch, we understand that every divorce is different, our attorneys are able to plot a course based on the individual needs of the client. Mindful of the effect a contested divorce can have on children:
  • We sometimes recommend mediation and settlement as an option that can lessen the emotional impact. 
  • We are not afraid to stand up for the rights of our clients in the courtroom.
  • We believe that every option should be explored to find a solution for you.
Take this into account when you are searching for your divorce attorney in Camden County. For a free consultation, call us today.

Law Offices of Phillips, McElyea, Carpenter, & Welch, P.C.
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